I am not the person I was with my long departed wife/soulmate. Nor am I the person I was before my next love passed 6 & half years later. Each took parts of me forever lost to the "me" each left me behind to try move on in whats left of this life as the lesser soul than I used to be. Loved ones & friends associated with both those past lives thanks to "death" likewise moved on leaving me to a me I could no longer be for myself or even another to move on with what remains as "3rd chapter of this life".